remember me?

I wonder if anyone still checks this thing… If you do, let me know….LOL

Okay… I think I am back… for real this time. A bit of an explanation as to where I have been? Do you want the truth? Or shall I invent a terrifically believable, but somewhat insane lie?

It all began in June….I am not sure what the trigger was, but perhaps it was another discovery of a multi-thousand dollar credit card bill taken out by ex in my name. I know this sounds really bad and intentional, but… believe me… not intentional, just poor money management and stupidity

Sort of went downhill from there. I stopped going to the gym (really out of character for me…) and simply went to work, church, and home.
My relationship with BF grew very perfunctory and remained dissatisfying for me.
Couple that with having to move, and being stuck with even more bills in that area.
I got to the point that I just wanted out. It all seemed hopeless…

Nevertheless, I hung in there.

First decision was to begin seeing other men again.

Second decision was to make my new house my home

So.. I have been working on the new house…. and continuing my serial dating behavior. I met a few, here and there…. but as always.. nothing seemed to ever stick.

Until I met Ed.

And everything I have been holding out for became real in this one man. I almost did not go out with him… I really did not think he was going to be anyone I wanted to be with… but I went out to lunch with him just before Thanksgiving.

And on return to his house we sat in the car and talked for another hour.

Then lunch later that week
Then dinner

Then…a trip to Mexico together….

I’ll keep you posted….